Wednesday, March 7, 2012

The Child Support Abusers

Child Support.
How do you feel about it?
Do you think it's used correctly?
Is it neccessary if the parent thats been/being served is taking care of the child's/ren needs?

I've been dealing with this guy that's been having issues with his ex who is also the mother of his child. From what he's telling me ,he no longer wants a relationship with her, he only wants to be a father to his child without having a intimacy relationship with her. Now that he's moving on she's been threatning to put him on child support even though he's the provider & has been providing for the child throughout their relationship. He works & she doesnt and cant work. Then on top of this she's been threatning to not let him see his son. Also he's brought her a new vehicle to provide transportation for her and their son so its not like he doesnt do for HER and their son. So what's her payback for him not wanting her? Child Support.
In many situations I think its misused & abused , I truely believe the courts should evalcuate the conditions and situations before they order a parent to pay a certain amount of cash every month.
Some parents use it to take care of their own wants and needs,mostly women, to get their hair done, nails done, toes done, buy new outfits , and expensive brand new cars they cant afford when instead they should be paying water bill, electricity bills , buying their kids decent clothes, shoes , wipes, diapers , milk , paying school fees & etc. Instead they're looking fly while their kids are looking a mess.
So what needs to be done about this situation?

Friday, March 2, 2012


So the weekend is finally here & i'm trying to step out by doing something outgoin & fun besides staying in the house wasting my two day weekend away. I was planning on going to visit home , which is 2hrs. frm my current location, since i havent been there in about 2 yrs.But she had other plans she wants to visit Charlotte to go to a CIAA game well scratch that , for the after parties.I'm still kind of on the fence about the whole scenerio.I wanted to leave Fri. afternoon and come back Sun. afternoon. plus not only does she want to go to a game that idnt care anything about , she tells me she has to take a test Sat.morning , so I have to eliminate a day of my visit. I do want to have fun but I just want to relax also.

I have alot of things that need to be done:
-Stop by the piercing parlor to get a clear nose ring
-Get weave frm beauty supply
-get car serviced for " road trip"
-Pay bills

Admiring Obsession...

I get a blank text a few minutes ago... I open the message and there's a picture, of a tattoo. Now letme break it down a few months back you guys know the song "Lotus Flower Bomb" by Wale ft. Miguel was hot at that moment & I saw a tattoo a girl got kind of mimmickin the song & it gave me a ideal to do somethin similiar. So it jus happened to tell my cousin /friend my ideal. Weeks later she tells me that she knows a guy who does good tattoos and we should both get "that" matching tattoo. And boom she has it. & i'm really bugged out because it's like she doesn't have a style of her own . I hate ppl that want to do the same thing as others so now im like I dont even want that tattoo anymore ,i'll just find another ideal.

 Crazy thing about this is that this isnt the first time shes done something like this so what line do you draw between admiring and obsession?