Tuesday, January 24, 2012

exotic Dancers and Relationships

Strippers..... and relationships.... how do you think they work .....is it possible for them to function correctly of normal ?
I'm curious to know.
This post was kind of inspired by Tyga (YMCMB member) and Black Chyna(exotic dancer, King of Diamonds /K.O.D) & their relationship .
May be they're not in a relationship but close friends , IDK but it seems to me that they're more than that but anyhow we're just going to say they're in a relationship as of now.

yeah, you get the picture,literally.
 I wonder how does the trust of this relationship goes? I mean you have your woman here & she's taking off her clothes for millions of people.
Is there a respect level?
I wonder how he feels about people that can go to K.o.D anytime they want and just see everything he takes at home at the end of the shift?

Although I think it's kind of a slight difference with entertainers who are in the industry.You have all types of women/men throwing themselves on you .today you're in one city the next you may be in a whole nother country being away from your s/o or spouse. Knowing what you know, i'm pretty sure there's a slight trust issue , but bein that the both of the two are in the lime light & pretty much know the in's & out's of the business they probably have a better understanding of each other & the relationship.

Note:I understand some strippers aren't trashy, meaning their job is simply their job whenever they leave the club it's over and they have a normal life college, providing for their family etc. & they don't take their job outside of the club meaning they don't trick off or date their customers.So i'm in no way,shape or form generalizing.

I lost all memory and sight of what i was actually supposed to say in this post but people how do you feel about strippers and relationships?

Sunday, January 22, 2012


First post of 2012 , celibacy .

What does it mean to you?
What is your 1st thought when you hear the word?
How do you feel about it?
Do you think its possible to maintain celibacy in this day& age?
Could you remain celibate while in a relationship?
Celibacy til Marriage ?

So these are the questions that have been strolling through my head for years now , yes , you read correct . yearS with an S. I'm 18 & i've been battling with this celibacy issue forever . I've tried it many of times but the longest i've managed was 4 months, twice, maybe even more. But this time I want to be serious & really stick to the plan.
My thing has always been self - love .You should treat yourself with love&respect &if you are with someone they should do the same.If your choice is to wait&abstain , they should accept it & respect it , if they really love you & if otherwise they should leave.
It seems like relationships are based on sEx.seX,Sex! and no love or intentions on love,marriage , children & a life together forever. You have sex before you get in a relationship & you get in relationship because you had sex & to get more sex , & you leave the relationship to get sex from elsewhere.
& i've come to conclusion if I do what God wants he'll send me the man i Need who's for me & concern to me.