exotic Dancers and Relationships

Strippers..... and relationships.... how do you think they work .....is it possible for them to function correctly of normal ?
I'm curious to know.
This post was kind of inspired by Tyga (YMCMB member) and Black Chyna(exotic dancer, King of Diamonds /K.O.D) & their relationship .
May be they're not in a relationship but close friends , IDK but it seems to me that they're more than that but anyhow we're just going to say they're in a relationship as of now.

yeah, you get the picture,literally.
 I wonder how does the trust of this relationship goes? I mean you have your woman here & she's taking off her clothes for millions of people.
Is there a respect level?
I wonder how he feels about people that can go to K.o.D anytime they want and just see everything he takes at home at the end of the shift?

Although I think it's kind of a slight difference with entertainers who are in the industry.You have all types of women/men throwing themselves on you .today you're in one city the next you may be in a whole nother country being away from your s/o or spouse. Knowing what you know, i'm pretty sure there's a slight trust issue , but bein that the both of the two are in the lime light & pretty much know the in's & out's of the business they probably have a better understanding of each other & the relationship.

Note:I understand some strippers aren't trashy, meaning their job is simply their job whenever they leave the club it's over and they have a normal life college, providing for their family etc. & they don't take their job outside of the club meaning they don't trick off or date their customers.So i'm in no way,shape or form generalizing.

I lost all memory and sight of what i was actually supposed to say in this post but people how do you feel about strippers and relationships?

Celibacy

First post of 2012 , celibacy .

What does it mean to you?
What is your 1st thought when you hear the word?
How do you feel about it?
Do you think its possible to maintain celibacy in this day& age?
Could you remain celibate while in a relationship?
Celibacy til Marriage ?

*sighs*
So these are the questions that have been strolling through my head for years now , yes , you read correct . yearS with an S. I'm 18 & i've been battling with this celibacy issue forever . I've tried it many of times but the longest i've managed was 4 months, twice, maybe even more. But this time I want to be serious & really stick to the plan.
My thing has always been self - love .You should treat yourself with love&respect &if you are with someone they should do the same.If your choice is to wait&abstain , they should accept it & respect it , if they really love you & if otherwise they should leave.
It seems like relationships are based on sEx.seX,Sex! and no love or intentions on love,marriage , children & a life together forever. You have sex before you get in a relationship & you get in relationship because you had sex & to get more sex , & you leave the relationship to get sex from elsewhere.
& i've come to conclusion if I do what God wants he'll send me the man i Need who's for me & concern to me.

Cheers to the freaking weekend !

So I got off early from work tonight , well lastnight technically since I haven't been so sleep since, I came home , I planned to just do my usual browse blogs & network til 4 a.m. then go off to bed , But tonight a guy friend of mine called me to "hang out" so I took a shower , dressed up , not much but still , I dressed up ...You know how women are ,never on time when it comes to getting ready, but anyways I told him i'd meet him at his house in 15 til 30 mins. I won't like it probably took me an hour  & 15 mins. lol but whenever i was on my way to his house I see him driving the opposite direction from his house LEAVING but coming in my direction ....long story short , he said i took too long , he didn't think I was coming so he's bout to "run somewhere right quick" then he goes on to ask me do I want to get a room (hotel/motel) with him ...So me being me I said HELL NO ! Aint even that type of party *in my ghetto slang/voice* lol so after that i could sense he cocked an attitude so I jus drove off in the middle of him beginning to speak so he pretty much got on my nerves for the night by wasting my time .UGH !!! I FUCKING HATE with a FUCKING PASSION when ppl WASTE    MY    TIME !!!! it gets under my skin to the MAX!!!
So after that I called myself finding something to do since I was already out but a BIG FUCKING FAIL that was....SOOOO I ended up coming back home .popped in a DVD ( Love Jones) , talked on the phone til that ended ... & now im up because I supposed to be lookin for me a car.
My whip ain't shit so i'm trying to get rid of it before it completely goes out & my job has a discount with the local Honda car dealership so I said hey , why not use it to my advantage , shit i need it . So im going to try to find something cheap around 6,000 & the discount is 2500 so 6000-2500=
 6000
-2500
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3500
Not bad ehh ? but you know how dem dealerships be on that fast talk hidden deals type bullshit . Hopefully every thing goes according .


I supposed to be doin a sew - in on a lady's hair today , wish me luck .

Where'd all the blogs go?

You know? The REAL blogs , the ones with meanings & real life shit , shit that's really interested , shit with problems , questions , answers , life, & money issues . Ever time i search for a blog(s) that are appealing to the eye , it ends up being a boo-gee fashion or make -up blog , don't get me wrong that's cool & all but like I said what happened to the real blogs ??? Help !!!

Natural hair growth picpost...

In the beginning...
Day 1,the big chop-

A little later on-

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So then she grew and added style

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My first straighten after 1 year,1 month and 10 days of completely going natural....

I became bored with just red&black ..sooo I went blonde,the red wore off&the bleach mixed to that orange,auburn tint...

The End of a New Beginning!

Sometimes being busy sucks...

I love the fact of being busy with work & making lots of money doing so as well but at times I get so overwhelmed especially with the type of work & job I have & having the type of job where u don't have a set time , it's just based on whenever all the work is done & that can be anywhere from 8-12 hrs. . But anywho I really don't have time to blog as much as I would like because all I seem to do is work , work , work , but enough of that, i will start making time because there is so many things I want to get off my chest!
I wanted to talk about World Aids Day(Dec.1) ;imissed that . I want to talk about relationships/my relationship&issues(of course) along with sexually frustration &Hair ! Hair ! Hair! Natural hair ! YASSS ! But as of right now all this is going to be on hold to the weekend because in NC it's 3 a.m. I just got off work around 1 a.m. & i have to get back at it at 1 p.m. tomorrow afternoon. So until nxt time ♥

"ewww Yo Sh*t stank Mommy" ...Is this what we teaching our kids now?

I may be late on this video , i can't recall the date when it was posted but when I was browsing along worldstarhiphop I happened to come across this video... I watched ...& then I judged *kanye shrugs* . In MY eyes , this sh*t is so wrong on so many levels . 1st , I could understand if you doing your thing alone , meaning by yourself , maybe along with your girlfriends or something (not saying it'll exactly be right then either but....Im just saying...)but seriously with your children around !!! Did I say children meaning more than 1 , a older daughter & a younger son , so on both aspects you're fcking up big time. This is the example you're trying to set for your daughter, no respect , no boundaries ? For you're son , do you want him to disrespect women & treat them as trash? well pretty much in other words you are because if you're not taught anything & thats what you've grown accustomed to as a child you have no other knowledge beyond what you was taught & grew up around . SMH ! No amount of words can explain how dirty this sh*t is. You have your daughter recording & your son watching. I think she need to be escorted to a parenting class for one.I don't see abuse but I do see emotional endangerment & someone needs to evalcuate her ass. Thats all with my ranting & what not. If you haven't seen , here's the video.
http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhwoQ92jRay69xvOJD